is love marriage is better than arrange marriage

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Love marriage is a legal right for two individuals who care and love for each other to live together and go ahead with their life. In love marriage, you know each other well, you are not going to be with any stranger or you may not have much problems if you know about the person well before you decide to spend your life together. A love marriage can become un-successful, if you had a very short time time know each other and just decided to get married. If you are knowing each other well and you are sure that you can get along with each other without any problems then you can decide to get married. In short the advantage of going for a love marriage is that you are going to live your life with a person who you know well and you are sure that you can get along well.

The biggest advantage of love marriage is the bonding and affection that is established between the couple before the marriage. This does not happen in one day but it develops over time and then we say that the individuals have fallen in love with each other. Falling in love is an essential perquisite for all love marriages. Scientifically it has been discovered that falling in love alters our biochemical state and individuals in love yearn to be together and share the most intimate things about their lives with the loved ones. As love develops the people in love tend to become accommodative and supportive to the needs of each other and in fact they try to complement each other in all possible ways. Adjustments are made and negative traits in the individuals are overlooked or underplayed. It has also been seen that people who are in love share a high amount sexual tension between themselves. So we can safely assume that the bonding based on affection, mutual attraction and care when continues unhindered for some time then it can lead to marriage and this is what we call as love marriage.The most important positive point of marriage based on love is that it is based on the foundation of mutual attraction, affection, care and personal choice. Love marriage gives the individuals the freedom to choose their partners and live a life based on their own individual will. It also teaches them to be supportive and accommodative to each other. The beauty of love marriage is the love that exists between the individuals. The love among the two individuals also becomes the basis for strong sexual attraction which is more than the feeling of lust. When people in love have sex, it leads to emotional fulfilment and development of trust between each other. In fact the feeling is of giving and sharing at every level. Further this strong bonding called as love helps the couple overcome life’s tough circumstances and challenges. Even in the toughest of situations the couple stay together and face the challenges of life as a team. Overtime this experience of sharing the good and tough moments of life together helps them to cement their relationship at a higher pedestal involving the physical, mental and spiritual faculties.

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5 Responses to is love marriage is better than arrange marriage

  1. Ritika says:

    it had been a topic of discussion, with no clear conclusion, as such!
    If you end up having a happy marriage; then it hardly matters if it was love or arrange!

  2. Ankita Prajapati says:

    According to me in this discussion is that love come arrange marriage is the best way.. It all depends on our knowledge..During the decision of love we won’t consider the parents feelings. Every problem has a good solution. We shared many thing in our life and our parents gave the good solutions too. So nothing wrong in that by sharing our love with our parents. Definitely they will give good solution to your love too if it is true…

  3. sakshi chaudhary says:

    From my perspective love marriage better than arrange marriage. If couples cannot understand each other or do not know about their likes and dislikes how they can live together.Marriage with the blessing of parents is best…. I think life without love is not live and love can makes our like colorful. Happiness, luck and wealth exist where love is!!!!
    So love marriage are more better…

  4. Saurabh Singh says:

    I think Love marriage is better because before starting a life it is important for boy and girl to know each other very well..

  5. Siddhant Tripathi says:

    In my opinion. arranged format is better than the love marriage format because without the consent and blessings of our parents and grandparents; a relation can’t reach fruitful heights!
    We also have a responsibility towards our parents.. to give them happiness in return of their matchless love!

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