Marriage is a bonding between two people, two family, two society, two cultures, which should be handled with care, understanding, trust and love. Failing in this may become a trap for them. Both the families will always be a support for each other, in good as well as in bad situation, handling all the pros and cons of life. But as we know every coin has two sides, it also has two sides.
If the partners are caring, understanding, loving each other and have trust on each other, then its a perfect bonding. But when it is affected by dowry, money, status, cheating, fraud, misunderstanding, ego, wrong attitude, selfishness then it ends in trap.
Marriage is a social obligation. There are many demands from groom side. Marriage gives family pressure. Marriage for a girl becomes a trap if she is not satisfied by her new in-law family, she can’t even break the relationship as she is bonded to the society. Hence marriage becomes a social trap for her.
Our ancestors made marriage compulsory just for making it a tradition. In marriage not only the compatibility of a partner is important but the family, financial conditions, status etc too play an important role. But when sometimes these demands of the girl and boy cannot be completed or any one of the partner lacks in these qualities .This only leads to hearttaking divorce or frustration, domestic violence, extra marital affairs.
Marriage is a social trap because here in india there are still so many families who only worry about their child’s marriage but not bother about his/her future plans, especially for women. As soon as a child completes his /her graduation or moves from teenager to adult they enforced by their parents to get marry to unknown persons.Still this situation of social trap and social bonds is there in India,whereas today india is moving towards the era of latest technology.Still in india douwry system and child marriages are still there. And what this society needs is just that commitment but for this commitment binding people by a social custom called marriage is not worth doing.